Aligning What You Ultimately Want with What You Want Now
HOW TO ENJOY THE JOURNEY IN THE PURSUIT OF GOALS
If we aren’t living on purpose, life can become one goal after the next, chasing the next accomplishment, and the next. In short, we can miss out on the life that we really want.
Are you too busy staring at the lines in the road and not appreciating the journey to your accomplishments that glow on the horizon? We can become so absorbed in what we are striving for, that we completely lose the joy in the journey. Over time, we lose the spring in our step because every day is the same, rinse and repeat, ad nauseam.
At times, life can appear to be one big hamster on a wheel. As the years go by, we’re left feeling empty and not having achieved what we ultimately wanted. The effects of stress and anxiety start to appear in your health. Even your most important relationships are cracking under the strain.
One of the biggest misconceptions about goal setting is that we’ll automatically be happy after achieving them. I look back on my life and contemplate on all the times when I suffered just to achieve my goals and the price I paid for not letting anything get in my way. After all, isn’t that the way it’s supposed to be, all-encompassing and painful?
But there's one huge problem, I wasn’t happy or fulfilled after achieving success. I must admit it took me many years to realize that I left out a very important ingredient in goal setting. I didn’t know what I ultimately wanted to achieve. I wasn’t going through life with updated values and beliefs, therefore my perceptions were skewed, and I wasn’t clear about my vision.
When we work and work without having clarity of what we ultimately want, we end up at a completely different destination than what we wanted. I was doing that, and I felt like a failure as if my soul was deflated like a balloon, unfulfilled and unhappy.
LIVE LIFE ON PURPOSE
It’s time to ditch the hamster wheel and the endless, monotonous miles in favor of something so much better. It’s possible to achieve your goals AND enjoy the journey at the same time. That’s right. Simply shift your focus to what you ultimately want, and your goals will come into alignment with your vision. Then…. choose to enjoy the process.
When I reframed my perceptions of the journey, I determined if the price that I would pay was in alignment with my bigger vision. This is what I did next.
Ask yourself these three questions
1. What do you ultimately want?
2. Why do you want it?
3. What are you willing to do to get it?
The answers to these questions will help you to get on track in determining if your values and beliefs are up-to-date. I'll admit that this is easier said than done. I had to learn these lessons at the cost of relationships and chasing the WRONG goals that took me further away from what I wanted.
Will you allow me to help you to not make the same mistakes that I made?
RECALIBRATE >> RESTART >> THRIVE
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