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3/28/2021 LEVERAGE MISTAKES TO YOUR ADVANTAGEIDENTITY BLUEPRINT FOR THE FANTASY NEW YOULEVERAGE MISTAKES TO YOUR ADVANTAGE Yesterday really doesn’t matter! Many people make the same mistakes and get stuck reliving them over and over again. They put too much importance on past mistakes and the decisions that weren’t made. They focus on all the bad things that happened to them. Oftentimes, this results in carrying around the pain of past events for years with no end in sight. How do I know this? Because I was one of those people. Back in the day, I used to be a person that was haunted by my past mistakes. I was seeing the consequences of all the attitudes and mistakes from my past and couldn't see the forest for the trees. I had disappointed a lot of people who believed in me and I lost sight of my dreams. All those memories were like a horror movie playing in my head over and over again. It was a scary place to be in. To make matters worse, I started believing all those past experiences would define my future. I believed that I would forever be stuck watching the same movie in my head over and over again. And then… one day I had a moment of clarity. I wasn't doomed to be the lead actor in a horror movie, if I didn’t choose to play it. “The facts of the past don’t determine the future” – Eric Miller The fact I had some past failures didn't mean I wouldn’t achieve what I wanted. The future scripts for the sequel to my movie hadn’t been written yet. I finally decided that there was enough pain in my life and I wasn’t going to carry it around for the rest of my life. IDENTITY BLUEPRINTING FOR THE FANTASY NEW YOUThe first step was in the realization that my past, was in the past. In order to choose happiness, I would have to reframe my perceptions of all the S.N.A.F.U.’s of the past. If I could be truly honest with myself, I could use those experiences to become better. “Choose to leave past mistakes and disappointments, in the past, and opt for happy” I was now free from the regrets and mistakes of the past. I had a new adventure ahead of me and I restored lost confidence and experienced a new kind of motivation. The second step was in drafting a new identity blueprint. Being honest with myself allowed me to choose what I didn’t want to be any longer. I was finally able to delete the horror movie that was playing in my head. I was writing a whole new script that would not have me playing the villain as the lead role. Those decisions set me free. Now, I need to ask you something … Have you lost the motivation to pursue your dreams? Do you believe you can't create a brighter future for yourself? If the answer is YES, then I have something that will help you. RECALIBRATE >> RESTART >> THRIVE Regardless of your current circumstances, you can choose your own way in life. Clearly understand that you can start from where you are now and make dramatic shifts in the direction you’re headed in.
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